Royal Wedding Fever!

Hello guys,

Another working week done and dusted again. If you're anything like me then you will be glued to your television screens tomorrow afternoon, when Suits star Meghan Markle will marry Prince Harry. It promises to be a huge occasion and I just cannot wait to see her dress. They seem like a genuinely lovely couple and I would just love to go for a drink with them. I suppose that will never happen though!! Oh well!

I actually remember being on my nursing internship in 2011 when Kate married Prince William and watching it in the staff room on my lunch break. It was such a fantastic occasion and those two have really changed the nature of The Royal Family.

Tomorrow however, I'll be in the comfort of my own home. I'll have the coverage on early and might even have a little party to celebrate - some goodies and some wine! Naturally, there is huge speculation over Meghan's dress. No doubt it will be just as fabulous as she is and it will be a day for all of us to remember.

Here are some of The Royals on their wedding day. As you can see, royal style has evolved drastically throughout the years.

Kate Middleton

Zara Phillips

Camilla

Princess Diana

Princess Ann

Queen Elizabeth

Have a wonderful weekend and enjoy the sunshine.

Love,

M

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The Importance of Self Care

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Hello all,

   It's been a few weeks since I've written anything so I'm back with a bang this week. I've been thinking a lot about self care these past few weeks and the importance of it. Life is busy. There are stresses and strains every day of the week - work, relationships, financial strain etc. What matters most is that you look after you first because if you don't you really are not much use to anyone else.

   So, what is self care? It's not about being selfish or self obsessed, it's actually one of the most selfless things you can do. It really is exactly what it says on the tin. It's looking after yourself and there are many ways you can do it.

The following are a few of the ways I try to practice self care in this busy life.

1. Self Compassion: Would you talk to somebody else the way you talk to yourself? Probably not! Give yourself a break. Everyone makes mistakes. Accept it, let it go and forgive yourself.

2. Talk It Out: They say a problem shared is a problem halved and I really agree with this. Lighten your load and talk to a friend or partner. They may add clarity to the situation you find yourself in.

3. Choose Your Inner Circle Wisely: You're the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Make sure they are uplifting caring people who have your best interests at heart and not energy vampires sucking the life out of you. There are a lot of those out there and you don't want them in your circle.

4. Good Food = Good Mood: It really is that simple. I do have a sweet tooth and never deny myself but I do try to eat healthy 80% of the time. (Most of the time!)

5. Exercise: Whether it's a quick walk, jog or a 30 minute class, exercise is a massive stress release and also helps clear the mind.

6. Meditation: I try meditate every night before I go to bed and am a huge advocate for this ancient practice. If I've meditated at bed time I usually wake up feeling much more calm, relaxed and motivated.

7. Me Time: Take time out to do something you enjoy. Maybe you love reading, visiting your friends, or watching a great show on Netflix. A facial is my go to treat. Do what makes you happy!

8. Be Your Own Best Friend: Do what you want to do. Your time here is precious. Use it wisely. If you want to get your nails done every three weeks or a blow dry every Saturday than do it! Don't heed those people - you know the ones: 'Well isn't it nice for some?"

9. Try Not To Take Things Personally: Other peoples opinions are none of your business. It says more about them than it does about you.

10: Gratitude: Each night write down three things you did well that day and three things you are grateful for. Try it for two weeks and see how you get on! 

It really is an inside out world.

Hope you all have a great weekend. I'm off to Belmullet for Queen Lally's and Adrian's wedding!!!!

Love,

M

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What's In My Handbag?!

Hello folks,

   So, I'm two months into writing this blog 'craic' now and I have to say I'm enjoying it. I admit I never really know what I'm going to write about each week. The first few weeks were really easy as I had loads of inspiration and I was doing two posts a week. In hindsight, I probably threw out too much content early on and struggled a bit the last few weeks with it. But alas, I'll not stress about it. I literally just write about what ever pops into my head each week and there hasn't been any week I've been mad stuck for content yet!

   When I was in Chicago a few weeks ago I bought this gorgeous Kate Spade bag. I just love the colour and it's the perfect size. It's one of those bags you could bring with you as your hand luggage on a flight and fit all your essentials in. Today I said I'd spill it's contents and let you see what my "Handbag essentials"are.

1. iPhone 6 - That's an obvious one, and my car keys!
2. Ted Baker Wallet - This was gifted to me by my cousin Noelene for Christmas 2016 and it comes everywhere with me. It doesn't scratch and is still in perfect condition.
3. Start your Day With Katie Affirmation Book - I carry this book purely because I have a tendency to ruminate. If I feel myself going off on one I'll pull out the book, read the affirmation for the day and usually will feel in better form after it.
4. Hairbrush - I have the knottiest hair ever so I carry a hair brush with me at all times.
5. iPhone charger - It's the age we live in.
6. Forever Living Aloe Vera lip balm - This lip balm is aloe-vera based and contains no chemicals. I often have cracked lips and I find this lip balm very soothing on them.
7. Medication - I have asthma and am on long term daily inhalers and medication for it. This little bag comes everywhere with me.
8. Earphones - I really enjoy listening to audio books and podcasts so I always take my earphones with me to give me that option at all times when I'm out and about. One of my favourite podcasts is Fearne Cotton's Happy Place and I usually listen to this on a Monday evening just after it's released.
9. Moisturiser and MAC strobe cream - I don't like wearing make up every day of the week because I feel it dries out my skin. It could be all in my head but I feel if I have moisturiser and strobe cream on that I have a small bit of a glow!
10. Jenny Glow Pomegranite Noir - It smells gorgeous, it's so cheap. Why would I take it out of the bag?

I hope you are enjoying my blog posts so far. I would really love if you could let me know what kind of content you would like me to produce. There are so many "bloggers" doing the same thing so I'm hoping my blog will be a little different. So please, if there's anything at all you'd like to see me do or write about just let me know. I love writing and this is purely a hobby for me. In fact, you'd honestly be doing me a favour.

Have a good weekend,

Love,
M
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Online Shopping: My Old Reliables - What's Yours?!

Hi all,

Hope you all had a good week and are embracing the Friday feeling today! I was having a bit of writer's block the last few days and this post just popped in to my head last night!

Unfortunately I am a bit of a creature of habit. I never try anything new on the menu - you know- just in case I won't like it and oh what a waste that would be! I park in the same space every day at work (if it's available) and then I actually have the cheek to get annoyed if I have to park somewhere else, notions! I shop in all the same places. If I want jeans I'll go to TOPSHOP, if I need shoes I'll go to New Look and if I want a whole new wardrobe of quirky pieces I will usually head to ZARA.

When it comes to online shopping I'm the exact same. I always revert to the old reliables. If I have a wedding or a special occasion it's first stop ASOS and if I can't find anything there I will try Missguided If both of those fail I will probably borrow off a friend. The usual suspects know who they are :)

I also love boohoo for more casual pieces and going out wear. I find all three websites really reliable and I think that's so important. The last thing you want is to be worrying about is where your 'ASOS' package is, especially when you have an event coming up. I also find all three's customer services very efficient and never had any issues with returns.

Last years wedding outfits: Clockwise - ASOS, Borrowed and Borrowed

My questions to you readers are:
1. What are your favourite online websites for fashion?
2. Which one's do you find most reliable for delivery time and customer service?
3. Which one's do you find have the best quality clothes?

If any of you have any suggestions I would love to hear from ye! I have so many weddings this year so ye would be helping me out! Just leave a comment or send an aul' direct message. Who knows - maybe some of ye will be able to pull me out of my online shopping comfort zone.

Have a brill weekend,

M
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Travel: Chicago

Hi all,

So - we arrived back Saturday morning from our 8 day trip to Chicago and I'm still jet lagged. The aul' body clock is still all over the place but I'm hoping it will get back to normal fairly soon. We had the most wonderful time. My friend Siobhan, was so good to us and drove us all over the place, she really did spoil us.

We were there for Paddy's Day and watched the "Six Nations" final in 'Fado Irish Pub' in Down Town Chicago. We were there at 09:50 am and were delighted that the queue or "the line" as they say state side wasn't too bad. Thankfully a kind lady standing in front of us over heard us talking and asked us if we had the VIP tickets. We were like "no, what tickets?" She told us that three of her friends didn't show up and we could have theirs. I then looked around the corner and realised the real "line" was a block and a half long. We were simply in the right place at the right time.

After cheering on Ireland to their Grand Slam victory we left Fado and headed towards the river. They dye it green for St. Patrick's Day every year and it truly is a site to behold. It's one of my fondest memories from the trip.

Things to do in Chicago:
The John Hancock Tower - Why not try a cocktail on the 96th floor of the tower?! It's views are breath taking just make sure you wait there until you get a window seat so you can really appreciate the view.

The Sears Tower - We did both of these towers on the same day. I would actually say the views are better from The John Hancock Tower however The Sears Tower has the novelty factor of "The Ledge" where you can stand out and feel like your standing in the air over the city. A bit nerve wracking at first but we soon mellowed out and took a few snaps.

The Home Alone House - This was one of my favourite things we did in Chicago. I think everyone loves Home Alone so I was so excited to get the chance to go here. The house is situated about 40 minutes North of the city. We were lucky because Siobhan brought us but you could get an uber out to it if you wanted to. It looks smaller in reality than it does in the film but it was a surreal experience being outside such an iconic house!

The Cheese Cake Factory - This is located at the bottom of The John Hancock Tower. It's obviously renowned for it's cheesecake but we went full hog and got mains and a cocktail as well. Definitely go here if you are visiting Chi city. The cheese cake is just beautiful.

The Magnificent Mile - It's basically a walk on Michigan Avenue from the river to Oak Street. It encompasses some of the world's most renowned retail stores as well as some of the finest places to dine in Chicago.

The Bean in Millenium Park - It's just one of those touristy things you need to do!

The Wiener Circle - This is a hot dog joint located in Lincoln Park. It's known for it's staff verbally abusing customers so we went in for the laugh but they didn't give us any abuse. I know how ironic- the one time you want to be verbally abused! I looked in to it more afterwards and it seems this normally happens more at the weekend and late at night. We ate our hot dogs and headed on our way.

Chicago pizza - Chicago is known for it's 'Deep Dish' pizza. A few people put us off it so we just went with normal pizza instead. We headed to Pequods Pizza - a hidden gem based in Morton Grove. The service here was top class and is definitely worth a visit, especially if you are staying in the north side.

That's my little round up of the 'Windy City'. My main tip for anyone thinking of visiting here would be leave the touristy stuff to the week days. Every where is crammed at the weekend!

We had the best time and met the best bunch of people. Siobhan has the loveliest friends there, a little family away from home for her.

I just want to say a huge thank you to Siobhan, our host for the week, our personal uber driver and most of all our wonderful friend.

As usual, if any one is heading to Chicago and needs any tips or advice drop me a line!

Love,
M
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Fashion: Misguided Haul During #StormEmma

Hi folks, hope you're having a good week! I'm so happy it's Thursday and the weekend is nearly upon us once again! I am heading off to Chicago this day next week to visit my friend Siobhan, for Paddy's day and I cannot wait! I haven't really bought any clothes since Christmas and I had that 'I HAVE NOTHING TO WEAR' feeling! During the Irish epidemic that was #StormEmma I decided to head over to Misguided  for a gawk and picked up three playsuits and three body suits while I was there. You know- just to have some going OUT OUT clothes for Chicago! All items are linked to Misguided.

Playsuits

Misguided €34.00

This Pink Tie Kimono playsuit was the first item I tried on because I thought it was going to be the nicest. Unfortunately it was too small for me, a bit tight on the tummy! I'm that awkward in-between sizes kind of person. Anyways, enough said, it's going back!

Misguided €38.00

                                                                                                                                                                                                      

I absolutely loved this Star Print Tie kimono playsuit. This was a size 8 and fitted perfectly. It's just so comfy and I can't wait to dress it up with a pair of nude Amy Huberman stilletos! Definitely keeping this one!

                                                                         

Misguided €34.00

I really liked this playsuit. In fact I liked it so much I got two of them. (I ordered two by accident and one is going back). Again I got this in a size 8 and it fits well. It's not as roomy as the star print one but a much better fit than the pink tie kimona. It just goes to show you what sizes are like. I have three different playsuits here in "size 8" and they are all in reality, different sizes!

Bodysuits

Misguided €17:00

I loved this turtle neck bodysuit.  They are so handy as there's no need to worry about tan. You can just throw them on with a skirt or jeans and off you go. I'm keeping this one!

                                                     

Misguided €25:00

Again, I just love this purple velvet bodysuit. I got this in a size 10 and it's a good fit. I'm gonna keep this one too!

Misguided €54:00

This is actually a body suit with shorts. I only bought it because I thought it was a playsuit. The quality of this bodysuit was poor as it had a lot of loose threads hanging from the sleeves and the back. This has to be returned.

The grand total of these items was €236.00 but I got it all for €118.00 by using the discount code of Go50. I'm not sure if they are using that discount at the moment but they usually have some offers on over on Misguided. All and all it was a fairly successful haul, 4 out of 6 ain't bad! If any of you have bought any of these I would love to hear from you!

M

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Book Club: Truly Madly Guilty

Book of the week!

Last week I asked for suggestions over on Insta-stories for 'good books' to read. A few people got back to me with various titles and the one I decided to go for was Truly Madly Guilty by Liane Moriarty. Initially I was a bit like 'Oh Jaysus there's 465 pages in this,' but I had heard so many good things about this author I decided to take the plunge. 

Liane is the author of Big Little Lies, which has been turned into a TV series starring Nicole Kidman and Reese Witherspoon. I plan to make my way through more of her books after this one and already have the next one on standby rearing to go.

Don't worry I'm not going to give away any spoilers! Truly Madly Guilty is set in Sydney and is based on three couples. There is Erika and Oliver, both accountants and both with a passion for spreadsheets and an orderly life. Then there is Clementine and Sam. Clementine is a talented cellist and herself and Sam are much more chilled than the fore mentioned pair. They have two small daughters named Holly and Ruby. 

Erika and Clementine are childhood friends but they have a very strange relationship. In fact if it wasn't for Clementine's mother Pam taking pity on Erika as a child, you'd wonder if these two would ever have become friends at all. It seems highly unlikely. 

Vid and Tiffany are Erika and Oliver's next door neighbours. They have one child named Dakota. They are warm friendly people who love entertaining. They innocently decide to hold a barbecue one Sunday afternoon.

Vid meets Erika outside their house and he invites herself and Oliver over. When Erika mentions that her friend Clementine and her family are coming over for afternoon tea Vid insists that they all come to the barbecue too. Erika reluctantly agreed.

I don't think I have ever read a book filled with such suspense. The first sentence of the book is 'This is a story that begins with a barbecue,' said Clementine. She had been going round giving talks about what happened at the barbecue since that day. We don't actually find out what happened at the barbecue until well over half way through the book. That's what keeps you reading. You just want to find out WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED AT THE BARBECUE?!! 

After we finally find out what happened at the barbecue, there are various themes emerging from this book. Regret, shame, guilt, gratitude and even one character suffering from PTSD. I don't want to give too much away but it's definitely worth a read. If anyone has any book suggestions I'd love to hear from you! You can buy Truly Madly Guilty here.

M

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